I noticed that there is not much info in Joan's Memory listing. This is a link to her obituary if you would care to add it. I also pasted the text. https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/pilotonline/obituary.aspx?n=joan-alison-neely&pid=197020543

Joan Alison Neely, 65, passed away Saturday, October 24th, 2020. Joan, daughter of the late Jack and Juanita Mattingly, was born March 25th, 1955 in Fort Belvoir, Fairfax County, Virginia.

Of her many accomplishments, Joan achieved her Bachelor of Arts in Education from Virginia Tech and Master of Science in Education from Old Dominion University. Joan proudly resided with her husband of 42 years, Joseph H. Neely, in Virginia Beach where she passionately served the community as a celebrated educator for over 40 years.

In addition to her husband, Joan is survived by her daughter, Alison Neely Quelch, son-in-law, Matthew Quelch, of New Jersey, and was predeceased by her son, Joseph Howard Neely. She also leaves behind her brothers John Mattingly and Jeffrey Mattingly, both of Virginia, as well as a large family of nieces, nephews, and in-laws. Joan will be forever remembered as a loving wife, mother, sister, aunt, friend, confidant, teacher, and will remain an inspiration for everyone she has touched.